§ The most terrifying moments of that awful video are to be found in the behavior of the person in the far right corner at the end of the clip. §
I rarely speak of current events in this blog, since doing so would counter the purpose of my motto: May Something Said Here Touch Your Heart, Make You Laugh, or Give You Hope. Few situations in our current world could achieve even one of those goals!
Yet there are some incidents so dreadful and obvious that it would be almost immoral to evade them. They cry out to be acknowledged, no matter how dissonant and disheartening the subject. One of these situations is surely the horrific behavior of those who, in the guise of standing up for their rights, threaten or attack others who reproach them for not wearing face masks while in the middle of a worldwide plague, and contrary to the orders of local governments or the requests of private property owners.
I won’t take up the questions of whether masks are protective or not; whether they are a violation of one’s constitutional rights; or even whether they shield the wearer or those with whom one comes into contact. Those matters can be endlessly debated. The real question that I’ve uncovered (while watching countless videos of people being attacked or beaten or threatened) is why society has degenerated to such a point that these behaviors are accepted with little more than a shrug or a sigh.
I run through just a few of the incidents, all captured on camera, watching them play horrifically across the movie screen in my mind:
The hapless individual threatened by a livid man in a local Costco: https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2020/07/08/i-feel-threatened-who-protects-shoppers-angry-anti-maskers/5389199002/
The elderly disabled veteran brutally punched over and over: https://www.newsbreak.com/washington/spokane/news/1615195034250/see-it-suspect-caught-on-video-punching-elderly-disabled-veteran-during-mask-dispute-cops-say-perp-knocked-victim-unconscious-broke-his-jaw
And, perhaps worst of all, the middle-aged organ transplant recipient heaved into a bone-shattering crash by a hefty young woman:
Of all of them, I think this last incident shocked me the most—not because of the violence, since other videos and reports have displayed far more brutality; even fatalities. But what I found most disturbing in the attack by Terri Thomas on Margot Kagan wasn’t the fact that a beefy young woman would brutally assault a slip a lady who was not only old enough to be her mother, but who probably weighed in at 95 pounds soaking wet. No, that sort of unconscionable behavior is all too common these days. Nor was I flabbergasted by the inaction of the employees and customers captured in the video (despite later claims that they rushed to the victim’s aid after the close of the surveillance clip). Their immobility as the victim lay injured on the floor was shocking, but not surprising; compassion and courage–gallantry–are all too lacking in today’s society.
No, to me the most terrifying moments of that awful video are to be found in the behavior of the person (man? woman? I think it is a woman) in the far right corner at the end of the clip. Watch carefully, and you will see that, as Ms. Thomas storms out of the store, this customer cautiously toes aside the fallen cubicle divider that was overturned in the fracas—pushes it away with a foot, and then calmly returns to her copying or faxing or whatever transaction she had been making before the violent altercation began.
To say that this display of utter indifference chilled me to the center of my soul would be to describe Dante’s Ninth Circle of Hell as a cool spring breeze. I watched that entire disturbing video over and over, each time thinking perhaps I had missed something—that there was some mitigating factor, some reasonable excuse, that this person blithely turned aside and continued processing paper.
But there was none. No mitigating factor, no reason, and certainly no excuse.
The very idea that someone—anyone—would turn their back upon the victim of a horrific assault and coolly continue running off copies, casually ignoring the entire situation, speaks terrifying volumes about the moral state of our populace.
Somewhere, someone has seen that video, and recognized the person at the fax machine. Someone—some friend or family member, perhaps even a pastor or rabbi, has gazed (in horror? unsurprised?) at the behavior of that individual. Perhaps they said something; tried to rebuke him or her. Perhaps (more likely) not.
The rest of us will almost certainly never know who it was standing at the other fax machine that day. And I doubt that individual will ever read this blog post. But I say now, and will forever say, that their behavior was an affront to human decency as grave as any assault committed by those who threaten, slap, punch or spit upon their masked counterparts.
I’m sure The Faxing Person would shrug, as unconcerned by my opinion as they were for the victim of the assault. But their display of inhumanity was deplorable. And they should be ashamed. Quite thoroughly ashamed.
If you liked this essay, you might also enjoy “Political Civility”, in the Archives from July 3, 2019. (On the other hand, you might absolutely hate it!)
7 thoughts on “The Person at the Other Fax Machine”
This was very well researched and written. I have noticed an upswing in these events beginning in the 1980’s when I was told by a family member that he would never go outside to help an obvious victim of domestic abuse. It is a dreadful and peculiar form of cowardice that I simply can’t understand. Because of who I am, though, I have made one of my life’s missions to shine a light on discrimination wherever I notice this particular type. I was very disheartened to hear the abuser described as a “beefy” and “hefty” woman, and the victim a “slip of a woman”. I, of course, fall into the category of beefy, and I would like to state that a person’s size does not always make them strong, weak, abusive, or in need of protection. I realize that in this particular situation, you were calling attention to the fact that this victim was a recent transplant recipient. She was not capable of adequately defending or protecting herself. But please, as a society, can we stop the thought process that might lead us to mistakenly believe that large people can protect themselves, or that small people are delicate victims. It is just time. I say this with love in my heart for all.
I don’t disagree with you. After all, I am pretty hefty myself these days — quite a bi t so, in fact — yet I am not at all strong any longer. In this instance, though, I stand by my descriptions. The women in the video were precisely as portrayed. The 52-year-old victim was tiny, underweight, and carrying a cane; obviously unfit and unwell. According to info I located on her attacker, that 25-year old woman with the obvious strength and musculature of a young person is 5’5″ and weighs 160 pounds.
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